Don’t wait for a lightning bolt of horniness to strike. For many, desire is , meaning it shows up after the physical touch starts. Commit to 10 minutes of low-pressure physical intimacy—massages, heavy making out, or skin-to-skin cuddling—and see where your body takes you. 3. Focus on the "Mental Foreplay"

Ready to shake things up? If you want to transform your sex life starting tonight, forget the long-term therapy and start with these immediate, high-impact shifts: 1. Change the Scenery

The quickest way to better sex is a GPS for your partner. Use "The Sandwich Method": "I love it when you do X..."

The biggest "makeover" tool you have is your focus. Put down the phones, lock the door, and be ruthlessly present with each other.

"...because it makes me feel so connected to you."