"Lose You To Love Me" is a deeply personal pop ballad by Selena Gomez, released on October 23, 2019, as the lead single from her third studio album, Rare . The song is widely recognized as a "self-love anthem" that chronicles the painful but necessary journey of moving on from a toxic relationship to rediscover one's own identity. Key Meaning & Background
Critics praised the song for its vulnerability and "quiet strength," and it was frequently listed among the best songs of 2019. It also broke the record for the most Spotify pre-saves in 24 hours at the time of its release. Selena Gomez - Lose You To Love Me (Official Music Video)
While Gomez has primarily focused on the theme of healing, the lyrics are largely interpreted as being about her on-and-off relationship with ex-boyfriend Justin Bieber. Specific lyrics like "In two months you replaced us" align with the timeline of their 2018 split and his subsequent marriage. "Lose You To Love Me" is a deeply